Wow.... It was a long time ago that I started this blog site. I remember taking one look, feeling confused, and then intimidated. I was feeling overwhelmed at the time taking care of my older sister with no outside help. I was fighting with social security to get her benefits (I was on disability at the time and sharing what I got with her). I won that battle and was stunned to find out that even though I got her a nice settlement it didn't seem to help very much. Since then she has ...